1. Introduction

In the context of a child-centred approach, all practitioners should work in partnership with parents and carers as far as possible. Parents and carers need to understand what is happening, what they can expect from the help and support provided, what is expected of them and be supported to say what they think. This is particularly important when there is reasonable cause to suspect that a child is suffering, or is likely to suffer, significant harm, whether the harm is from inside or outside the home including online. Working collaboratively will mean parents and carers have the best chance of making changes, and practitioners can make fair and accurate decisions about how to support children and keep them safe.

While collaborative relationships between practitioners and, parents and carers are important, the wishes and feelings of the child and what is in their best interest remain central to decision-making. Practitioners need to be particularly skilled in engaging and working with parents and carers whom services have found difficult to engage. Some examples may be parents and carers of disabled children, parents, and carers whose children are at risk of, or experiencing, harm from outside the home, fathers, and male carers, and those who are neurodivergent. Practitioners also need to recognise, engage, and work with parents and carers who are unwilling or unable to engage with services.

2. Principles of Working with Parents and Carers

There are four principles which underpin work with parents and carers

2.1 Effective partnership with parents and carers

Effective partnership working with parents and carers happens when practitioners build strong, positive, trusting, and co-operative relationships by:

  • approaching families and their wider family networks and communities with empathy, respect, compassion, and creativity;
  • avoiding reinforcing family shame, suffering, and blaming;
  • using strength-based approaches, working with parents and carers to identify what is working well and how their strengths could support them to effect positive change;
  • ensuring they work sensitively with parents, carers, and children, to identify and understand the impact of adversity and trauma in their lives. Seeking to understand how adversity and trauma might manifest and affect children and parents’ engagement and using their expertise to adapt their response with care and compassion;
  • adapting their responses to meet the diverse needs of parents and carers, including fathers and male carers, and the specific challenges being faced, including parents and carers of disabled children, and where harm is outside the home;
  • ensuring they understand the families’ background, ethnicity, religion, financial situation, ability, education, sex, ages and sexual orientation, and potential barriers these create in seeking and accessing help and support;
  • being alert and recognising where parents or carers may not be acting in the best interest of the child or where children may be experiencing abuse, neglect, and exploitation as a result of actions by parents, carers, or other individuals in their lives. Using their skills and expertise to adapt their response to secure engagement;
  • being mindful of negative stereotypes when making decisions which might lead to false assumptions.

2.2 Communication considerations

Verbal and non-verbal communication should be respectful, non-blaming, clear, inclusive, and adapted to parents and carers needs. Practitioners should ensure that all materials provided to children, parents, carers, and families are jargon-free, developmentally appropriate and in a format that is easily understood. Where appropriate, material provided to children, parents, carers, and families should be made accessible and translated into their first language if necessary. Professional interpreters should be provided where needed. Practitioners should not need to rely on family members or partners for interpretation services, including British Sign Language.

3.3 Involvement in decision-making

Practitioners empower parents and carers to participate in decision-making to help, support and protect children by:

  • creating a culture of ‘no surprises’, for example, making parents and carers aware of who will attend meetings and discussions, if the child will be invited to participate and the format of the meeting or discussion;
  • explaining that parents and carers can bring a family member, a friend or supporter to meetings;
  • giving parents and carers adequate preparation at every stage, relevant information, a safe and appropriate environment for participation and suitable access arrangements;
  • signposting parents and carers to sources of help and support available locally or through the local authority;
  • helping parents and carers to understand what the issues are and how these impact on the child, what decisions could be made, what changes need to be made, why and how, timescales and possible outcomes.

3.4 Co-production

Practitioners involve parents, carers, families, and local communities in designing processes that affect them, including those focused on safeguarding children. They value their contributions, expertise and knowledge reflecting them in service design and continuously seek feedback from parents, carers, family networks, children, and local communities to inform service improvements. Practitioners use feedback from parents and carers to reflect on their own practice.

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